Showing posts with label same-sex parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label same-sex parents. Show all posts

Thursday, July 25, 2019

Two Gay Dads Are Both American, But Daughter Is Denied Citizenship

(stock photo via Depositphotos)

Two gay men are married.

They are both U.S. citizens.

They have a child born from the sperm of one of the men using a donor egg.

They are the only parents listed on the child’s birth certificate.

But when they return home from Britain, where the child was born, to the U.S. and apply for the child’s American passport, they are denied.

A State Department policy, under the Trump administration, allows children to be treated as born “out of wedlock” if the egg and sperm don’t match married parents regarding transmitting citizenship.

“Out of wedlock” means a higher threshold comes into play for citizenship to transmit to the child.

One of the men, James Derek Mize, was born and raised in the United States.

The other, Jonathan Gregg, was born in the UK to an American mother making him a U.S. citizen as well.

The two married in 2015 and in 2017 Gregg moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to be with his husband.


In 2018, their daughter Simone was born via surrogate in London using a British friend’s donor egg and Gregg’s sperm.

But since the egg donor is not listed as a parent, under the “out of wedlock” clause, the Trump administration says Gregg - as the genetic father - needed to be a resident of the U.S. for five years.

He was not.

The couple is suing the State Department, with the help of Lambda Legal and Immigration Equality, for discrimination and violating their constitutional rights.

State officials say the policy is not discriminatory because it could apply to opposite-sex couples as well as same-sex couples.



Earlier this year, I reported for Instinct on a ruling by U.S. District Judge John F. Walter in a similar case of a married gay couple which said there is no federal law that requires a child’s biological parents to be married to transmit citizenship.

Mr. Mize and Mr. Gregg point out that when they went to the U.S. embassy to obtain a passport for Simone, they watched as some 20 opposite-sex couples presented the same documents as they had and were given passports for their children.

They note that none of the opposite-sex couples were questioned concerning how their children were conceived or to their biological relations.

Since Simone was born in London, the U.S. currently views her as a British citizen, and the only way her parents could bring her back home to the U.S. was through a tourist visa. But the visa expires soon, leaving Simone with no legal status to remain in Atlanta with her parents.

Mize recently told HuffPost that when the embassy applied a different standard to his marriage and child, “Every anxiety I’ve ever had in my life about being gay and different came into my body and I just wanted to cry.”

(source: HuffPost)

Sunday, July 14, 2019

New Preschool Video Series Features Love & Diversity Of LGBTQ Families

(screen capture from Rainbow Stories)

Preschool entertainment learning app Hopster teamed up with Diversity Role Models to produce a series of videos showing LGBTQ families called 'Rainbow Stories.'

The video series focuses on teaching preschool kids about diversity among families.

"Our role models are at the heart of our work," shared Adam McCann, CEO of Diversity Role Models. "To see their stories of embracing difference and diverse, loving families come to life and amplified to young children will encourage acceptance around the world."



Miki Chojnacka, Chief Creative and Content Officer at Hopster, shared: "Rainbow Stories focusses on love, family, acceptance, friendship and trust. Finding real life stories and translating them into animated short films for preschoolers has been a hugely powerful experience."

Noting that LGBTQ community is underrepresented in preschool content, Chojnacka added, "We are so proud to have formed this partnership with Diversity Role Models and make the much needed change."

One of the animated videos shares the story of a married gay couple, Mark and Peter, who adopt a young boy, James. The video shows the happiness James finds in his new home with his adopted parents and their cat Einstein.

Check out the short video below as James comes to meet and love his 'forever family.'



(h/t Gay Star News)

Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Stranger To LGBT Parents Of Toddler With Cancer: 'I Was Going To Donate But Found Out Parents Are Lesbians'

The parents of a one-year-old girl diagnosed with advanced cancer were shocked to receive a hateful message on social media from a stranger.
Tiffany and Albree Shaffer with their children (image via Facebook)

The parents of a one-year-old girl diagnosed with advanced cancer were shocked to receive a hateful message on social media from a stranger.

Diagnosed in January with stage four Neuroblastoma, little Callie Shaffer has already spent more than 100 days in the hospital undergoing rounds of chemotherapy as well as surgery to remove a cancerous tumor.

Her parents, Tiffany and Albree Shaffer, have created a Facebook page titled “Callie Strong, Tiny But Mighty” to share Callie’s progress with friends and family. They say the support has been overwhelming, and helped them through this difficult time.

But amid all the good wishes being sent Callie’s way, the lesbian couple were shocked to find a hateful, homophobic message from someone they don’t even know.

"My prayers for Callie. I was going to donate $7600.00 to her fund, but I found out her parents are lesbian. I've chosen to donate to St. Jude due to that fact. Sorry. I'll still pray for her though, but maybe it's God's way of getting your attention that she needs a mommy and a daddy, not two mommies."

Callie’s parents shared a screen capture of the comment on their Facebook page.



“This is a very sick little girl, who's life is on the line," read the parents' caption.

“For someone to actually send this and speak to my family in this way is utterly DISGUSTING,” they continued.

“Regardless of how you feel, don't say a word,” added the couple. “What Callie needs is love and support.....not hate and misery.”

Speaking with local NBC News affiliate WNDU, Albree admitted she was “shocked” and “disgusted.”

"That's mainly what it was -- shock and hurt at the same time,” said the mother.

“She's loved. She's being taken care of. Why does it matter?,” added Callie’s aunt, Trisha Lamb. “Why would you want to hurt someone who is already hurting?"

With a stage four diagnosis, Callie has a long road ahead of her. In addition to chemo and surgery, she will need radiation treatments and a bone marrow transplant.

Albree has had to stop working to be with Callie in the hospital, while Tiffany is working as much as possible to pay the family’s bills in addition to driving to see her daughter every day.

A GoFundMe campaign has been launched to help defray the costs of the expensive treatment.

You can follow Callie’s progress on Facebook here.

(h/t WNDU)