Showing posts with label anti-bullying. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anti-bullying. Show all posts

Thursday, December 14, 2017

News Round-Up: December 14, 2017

Ben Cohen
Some news items you might have missed:

• Some #ThrowBackThursday action as I'm reminded of my major man crush on rugby champ and anti-bullying advocate Ben Cohen (above). Check out his 2018 charity calendar here.

• Researchers say having older brothers could increase the likelihood of being gay.

•  Failed Alabama Senate candidate Roy Moore threw more anti-LGBT shade even as he refuses to concede his race to Democrat Doug Jones. Moore says he lost due to "sodomy" sweeping the nation.

• Just six months after legalizing same-sex marriage, Bermuda's lawmakers have reversed course and outlawed marriage equality.

• Gay porn star sentenced to life in prison for "brutal and vicious" murder of his millionaire boyfriend.

Afterglow, the controversial off-Broadway hit one-act play, celebrates 200 performances tonight and has added a new block of tickets through March 2018.

Via press release: The play explores the emotional, intellectual, and physical connections between three men and the broader implications within their relationships.

The Advocate called the play "compelling and raw" and "not to be missed."

Huffington Post wrote, “It’s clear Afterglow will be a must-see among New York theatergoers.”

Afterglow (photo: Mati Gelman)

Friday, June 16, 2017

Out Country Artists Drake Jensen & Patrick Masse Inspire With Upbeat "Go Your Own Way"


On my latest podcast for The Randy Report, I chat with Canada's premier LGBT solo country artists, Drake Jensen & Patrick Masse, as they’ve teamed up to record an upbeat country song, “ Go Your Own Way” (not the Fleetwood Mac hit), meant to inspire young people who are bombarded with the message that they are “less than.”

The bright pop-country track has a liberating, anti-bullying message for young people in the closet; and also addresses the imaging in social media that perpetuates “perfection,” feeding a narrative that we aren’t good enough.

The press release for the single reads, “The fact is we can do something about it. We can go our own way.”

After just one week, "Go Your Own Way" has landed on the Top 10 Most Active Indies chart.

Jensen and Masse have also launched the “Go Your Own Way” Project on Facebook, a positive, interactive space encouraging folks to share photos and videos expressing how they "go their own way.”

It’s a case of Canadian East meets West as Jensen (from Ottowa) and Masse (from Vancouver) team up for to share a powerful, timely message.



Throughout the candid interview, both Jensen and Masse are refreshingly frank talking about bullying, collaboration within the LGBT community, the impact of religion on young LGBTs and more that motivated the two to record the country anthem.

Noting that bullying is especially rampant during school years for young LGBTs. I asked if either had experienced bullying themselves.

"I didn't get to high school," said Jensen. "I had a nervous breakdown when I was 15, and I locked myself in my room for six months. My last day of school was a flash mob beating that lasted about roughly a mile with two guys with boards with nails in them, and a crowd of people of about 75 that gathered around and followed while they bashed me. That was the last day. That was grade nine. There was no more school after that."

But the story didn't end there. "I've just recently connected with one of the guys that did that to me on Facebook. It was one of the most surreal things ever, you know? I sent him a message, and I said, 'I see you have children. I hope they don't suffer what I suffered at your hands.'"

Referring to his 'Scars' music video which includes statistics about childhood bullying, Jensen told the man, "Thank you very much, though - you've motivated me to do this and help thousands of people." He says he's forgiven the man who admitted facing his own demons, saying "the past is the past."

Masse recalls how discussions with co-workers about religion moved him to raise his voice at an early age.

"I remember years ago I worked at a big hardware store in Canada called Canadian Tire, and it was one of the first jobs I had out of high school. I was working graveyards; we were doing store audits, and I was with this young girl. Her name was Teresa, and she was a daughter of a pastor, and I was probably the first gay person she ever met."

"We would talk, she'd quote the Bible. She would quote this and quote that, and I said to her, 'Well, Teresa, what do you think?' She came back the next night, and said, 'You know, you're the first person, Patrick, who's ever asked me what I think.' I said, 'Doesn't that concern you Teresa? You're 23 years old, and while there's great lessons and values in the Bible, you can't hide behind a Bible and use a Bible to judge other people."

"Jesus only ever judged the hypocrites and the Pharisees in his lifetime," adds Masse. "He wouldn't be standing with you. He'd be walking with me because we're all imperfect people here. It's exciting to see that there are true Christians out there that are coming around. I think people are realizing people are people and everybody needs love, right? Everybody needs acceptance."

I loved talking with these two great artists.

Hit the link above for the interview and to hear "Go Your Own Way."

Monday, January 23, 2017

Out Music: Ty Herndon "Fighter"


Out country star Ty Herndon shares the music video for his new single, "Fighter," from his album House On Fire with this warning via Facebook:

WARNING- The version of this video contains strong and disturbing images. I wanted to share this version of the video #FIGHTER with you guys. We did this powerful imagery for my performance The Trevor Project Trevor Live. Some of you may find it disturbing. I know i certainly did. Most of you know me as a country singer. I am also a man who believes in the power of love not hate. And I often sing about it. When I was first approached about using these images, I rejected it. Then after much thought and prayer I realized that this is the truth for many young LGBTQ youth in the world today. I see it often when I travel around making appearances for organizations like GLAAD Human Rights Campaign LA Pride Dallas Pride ChicagoPride.com & so many more. It is my greatest prayer that we can all stand together and love one another- No matter what color or shape our spots are. I know this one fact clearly- from my own journey- None of us are perfect. As my Maw Maw use to say, We are all just beautiful messes. So be strong and journey on with a big open heart - And pay it forward with grace- knowledge and love. Just a reminder that all proceeds from the download of this song go towards The Trevor Project.

Ty's new album, House On Fire, available here.

I previously shared the first single from the album, "That Kind of Night," here. It was also one of my Top 5 LGBT songs of 2016.

Thursday, October 20, 2016

Spirit Day 2016


Spirit Day began in 2010 as a way to show support for LGBTQ youth and take a stand against bullying. Following a string of high-profile suicide deaths of gay teens in 2010, GLAAD worked to involve millions of teachers, workplaces, celebrities, media outlets and students in going purple on social media or wearing purple, a color that symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag.

Spirit Day now occurs every year on the third Thursday in October, during National Bullying Prevention Month, and has become the most visible day of support for LGBTQ youth.

This year GLAAD will celebrate Spirit Day on October 20 where we will all stand together; communities, corporations, celebrities, landmarks, faith groups, sports leagues, schools and so much more, to send a message of solidarity and acceptance to LGBTQ youth.

An amazing teenager, Brittany McMillan, wanted to remember those young people who lost their lives to suicide and to take a stand against bullying.

Students, schools, organizations, corporations, media professionals, celebrities, parents and many more. Everyone from Oprah to Cher to Facebook and MTV have gone purple for Spirit Day. Even the White House has joined the cause!

So, click over to GLAAD, change your pic to purple and get your grape on today remembering how we need to stand up to bullying.

Monday, July 11, 2016

Daily Dance: "Blu"


Sergio Sylvestre sings the Louis Armstrong classic "What A Wonderful World" against the backdrop of bullying.

Creative, powerful and effective choreography here. Well done.


Thursday, October 15, 2015

Hillary Clinton Goes Purple For Spirit Day


Current Democratic front-runner Hillary Clinton went purple today on Twitter in honor of Spirit Day.

Spirit Day began in 2010 as a way to show support for LGBT youth and take a stand against bullying.

After several high-profile suicide deaths of gay teens in 2010, GLAAD worked to involve millions of teachers, workplaces, celebrities, media outlets and students in going purple on social media or wearing purple, a color that symbolizes spirit on the rainbow flag.

Spirit Day is observed on the third Thursday in October. So, get out your purple and support efforts to end bullying of young LGBTs!

More info on Spirit Day over at GLAAD's website.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

October 15 Is Spirit Day!


From Harold Moss, Creative Director at FlickerLab, who created the video here.

I was thrilled when GLAAD approached me to make a short animation to get the word out about Spirit Day 2015, the day when millions of people around the world will wear purple to stand up against bullying of LGBT youth. This is an issue that hits very close to home for me.

I had too many of my own experiences with bullying growing up, although they grew more out of the general odd-ballness that creates animators rather than my sexual identity. For a couple of years, I was the kid with a special seat on the bus so I wouldn't get beat up every day.

Bullying creates real despair and desperation. It can take a lot of years to shake it off. And some kids don't make it that far. Layer on top of that someone trying to figure out their sexuality, and the fact that teachers and family might actually be part of the bullying, and it gets pretty grim. That's why standing up to this kind of bullying is so vital for everyone to do, every day.

But it's also incredibly important that the folks who are getting bullied know they're not alone in this. That sense of isolation and helplessness can, I think, be the worst part of it.

That's why Spirit Day is such a big deal, it makes the support visible. Let's all give a big purple shout out to everybody facing this kind of bullying and say, we got your back. We're with you.

I can only hope this short animation we created will get that word out to a few more people, and help Spirit Day make a bit more of a difference.

Now go take the pledge, y'all!

Spirit Day is October 15th - make sure you wear your purple and take the pledge!

To take the pledge, click here.


Saturday, June 13, 2015

Ben Cohen Launches New Fragrance For Men


Hunky, handsome retired rugby champ and LGBT ally Ben Cohen has launched his own fragrance, Ben Cohen For Men.

Because, let's face it, don't you want to know what he smells like?

Now, at least YOU can smell like him.

From Herald & Post:

"I never thought I'd be one day launching a fragrance, but here I am! And I'm glad I am.

"It has been a great journey doing this - from being approached by a company to launch my own fragrance, through to choosing a scent and then seeing the finished product.

"I really like the fragrance because the company that created it have delivered what I want - which is a fresh, woody and cirtrusy smell.

"In fact, I am using it all the time now - like water! Well, maybe not like water, but I do use it a lot."

The 36-year-old's new fragrance has been described on the Superdrug website as having a 'fresh aroma that is both rugged but mellow, with top notes of citrus and an underlying woody scent it has been designed to appeal to men of all ages'.

And just to remind you... :)

Friday, May 15, 2015

Nevada: State Legislature Approves Anti-Bullying Bill


A school anti-bullying bill, strongly supported by Gov. Brian Sandoval, has passed in the state Assembly by an overwhelming 36-6 vote, and now heads to the governors desk for his signature.

From the Las Vegas Review-Journal:

Senate Bill 504 creates the Office for a Safe and Respectful Learning Environment within the Department of Education. It also sets specific requirements on how school officials must deal with incidents of bullying. Administrators, principals and other school officials who knowingly or willfully fail to meet the requirements could be subject to discipline, up to and including dismissal.

The anti-bullying campaign is part of the Republican governor’s education agenda. His budget includes a new program called Social Workers in Schools, which would provide $36 million in grants to combat bullying. Another $300,000 in each of the next two years is also included in the governor’s budget to establish the Office for a Safe and Respectful Learning Environment.

The bill includes protections based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

Nevada will become the 20th state plus the District of Columbia to have specific laws that protect LGBT students from bullying.

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

After Ten Years, Montana Finally Has Anti-Bullying Law


Ten years in the making, Montana Governor Steve Bullock on Tuesday signed the state's first anti-bullying bill into law.

The new law defines bullying as any repeated harassment, hazing or threatening in person, or in writing including electronic communication. As proposed, it would have directed public school districts to adopt certain policies addressing the issue of bullying. The final version simply prohibits students and teachers from bullying any student in a public K-12 school. It does not explicitly refer to cyberbullying, but the law would forbid it under the general bullying ban.

Parents and local authorities can also go after bullies, schools or education officials who break the law.

Prior to Tuesday's signing, Montana was the only state in the US without a law addressing bullying.

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

GLSEN Celebrates "No Name-Calling Week" January 19-23, 2015

GLSEN celebrates No Name-Calling Week January 19-23, 2015

From the Gay, Lesbian, Straight Education Network (GLSEN): Be one of the brave, and join us in celebrating No Name-Calling Week January 19-23, 2015.

Whether you’re a teacher, student, guidance counselor, coach, librarian or bus driver, show you care by organizing a week of activities at your school aimed at ending name-calling once and for all.

No Name-Calling Week was inspired by the popular young adult novel entitled The Misfits by popular author James Howe.

The book tells the story of four best friends trying to survive the seventh grade in the face of all too frequent taunts based on their weight, height, intelligence, and sexual orientation/gender expression.

The friends create a new political party during student council elections and run on a platform aimed at wiping out name-calling of all kinds. The No-Name Party in the end, wins the support of the school's principal for their cause and their idea for a "No Name-Calling Day" at school.

Friday, November 14, 2014

Today Is StandUp Day


From rugby legend & LGBT ally/hero Ben Cohen and his StandUp Foundation:

November 14th marks the day that Ben's father Peter passed away from injuries he suffered while protecting someone that worked for him.

It is this day that Ben and the StandUp Foundation have chosen to declare as StandUp Day each year.

We hope you will join us on November 14th in memory of Peter Cohen and in support of the anti-bullying work that is being supported by this Foundation.

In addition to donating either in the US or in the UK, what can you do to recognize this important day?

1. Wear your StandUp branded shirt or wristband
2. Change your profile picture to the StandUp Day Pledge Photo
3. Introduce as many people as possible to the StandUp Foundation and invite them to honor this day
4. Post the StandUp website on Facebook/Twitter with messages of support that link to our home page
5. Share/post your stories/pictures

Friday, October 10, 2014

Calendar: Ben Cohen 2015 Teaser


Via OutSports, Ben Cohen - the founder of the anti-bullying Stand Up Foundation - gets a little wet and hits the showers for his first ever centerfold.

Ben Cohen's StandUp Foundation today released the cover image of the rugby World Cup champion's 2015 calendar, a perennial favorite for gay sports fans worldwide. The cover was shot by Chicago celebrity photographer, Bret Grafton.

The real story though, is buried inside - a centerfold of Cohen in a locker room shower (see it in the gallery above), exclusively released to Outsports. It is the first time the calendar has offered a centerfold, and the first time Cohen has shot one. It was captured by Los Angeles photographer Edwin Santiago. What is fully revealed won't be known until the 2015 calendar ships, closer to the holidays. It is available for pre-orders through his StandUp Foundation shop at www.standupfoundation.com.

Cohen also released new additions to his sold-out underwear line: briefs and trunks in the StandUp brand's signature blue, produced by Blue Buck.

"It's all cheeky fun," said Cohen, "if you will pardon the pun. But, mostly, that fun is done for a serious cause that I feel incredibly passionate about, and I am glad the products help us do so much good."

Proceeds from Cohen's products under the StandUp mark benefit his Foundation, the world's first dedicated to anti-bullying and LGBT equality in sports.

Check out the hunky and anti-gay bullying advocate Ben Cohen below:



Empire State Building Goes Purple For Spirit Day - October 16th


Emmy-nominated actress Laverne Cox will have the honor of lighting up the Empire State Building in purple to recognize GLAAD's annual anti-bullying Spirit Day.

Spirit Day, which will take place on October 16, inspires millions to wear purple or “go purple” online in a united stand against bullying and to show their support for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth.

Each year, Spirit Day draws the participation of celebrities, corporations, media outlets, sports leagues, schools, faith institutions, national landmarks, and individuals.

Spirit Day is made possible by the generous support of its national partners PepsiCo and Wells Fargo, as well as official partners Comcast-NBCUniversal and Google, and supporting partner American Eagle Outfitters.

“By recognizing National Bullying Prevention Month and lighting in purple for Spirit Day, the world’s most famous office building is supporting countless kids across the world,” said GLAAD President & CEO Sarah Kate Ellis. “At a time when eight in 10 LGBT youth are harassed at school, it’s critical that we let them know it’s okay to be who you are.”

(via press release)

Friday, April 11, 2014

Today is the National Day of Silence to create safer schools for students


The National Day of Silence is a day of action in which students across the country vow to take a form of silence to call attention to the silencing effect of anti-LGBT bullying and harassment in schools.

Founded in 1996, the Day of Silence has become the largest single student-led action towards creating safer schools for all, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression. From the first-ever Day of Silence at the University of Virginia in 1996, to the organizing efforts in over 8,000 middle schools, high schools, colleges and universities across the country in 2008, its textured history reflects its diversity in both numbers and reach.

Unfortunately, many "Christian" parents campaign against the event saying they don't want their children exposed to "gay propaganda."

What they call "gay propaganda" I call action for equality and a movement to end bullying.

Read more about the National Day of Silence at GLSEN.

Friday, March 21, 2014

New PSA narrated by Sir Ian McKellen urges you to "not be a bystander" to bullying


New PSA narrated by Sir Ian McKellen warns on the dangers of what children learn at an early age.

“What we learn as children, can last a lifetime.”

The campaign, by Stonewall, urges people to call out bullying and not be a bystander.

The film “will be shown at the British Film Institute’s Flare (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender) festival on 25 March,” Campaign Love reports.


Thursday, October 10, 2013

After Romeo to launch anti-bullying "Bully Proof Tour"



American pop group, After Romeo, and Defeat the Label, an international anti-bullying organization are joining forces this Fall on the BULLY PROOF Tour, a nationwide tour sponsored by Life n Soul, includes musical performances by the band coupled with positive social messages about anti-bullying and harassment.

The band will kick the tour off in Northridge, CA on October 12th and continue on visiting various junior and senior high schools and malls throughout the country.

Defeat The Label is a national non-profit organization dedicated to creating critical awareness of bullying issues in schools and communities.

Through the development of awareness campaigns, community outreach, and special events they empower young people to take a stand against bulling and promote an inclusive judgment-free society.

(via press release)

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Ben Cohen invites you to the beginning of Anti-Bullying Month in NYC


My man Ben Cohen tweeted this invite to start out October's "Anti-Bullying Month" campaign with him at Kiehl's in NYC on October 1st.

Mingle with Ben Cohen, enjoy free 20 minute facial, mingle with Ben, get 15% off any purchases (which will be donated to Ben's StandUp Foundation), mingle with Ben...

What's not to like?

It all happens from 5pm-8pm at Kiehl's Flagship Store at 109 3rd Avenue in NYC on October 1, 2013.

Oh - and you get to mingle with Ben Cohen....